It seems every time I get involved in a love relationship I lose myself. I lose my standards, my voice, my passions, my healthy habits. I get so wrapped up in men, the attention I get, the hopes and dreams of finding “the one”, that I drop the things that are important to me andContinue reading “Dick Distraction = Dating Detox”
Author Archives: Vanessa
words from God
Some days are good, some days are bad, some fall somewhere in the middle, and there isn’t much you can do but go with the flow of life. You cannot control the outcome, you cannot rush. You will not always get your way. Be aware of feelings. Be patient with the process. Believe everything isContinue reading “words from God”
the wisdom of Anthony Kiedis.
Warning: spoiler alert. Anthony Kiedis has a way of living that I am a little envious of. It’s something I’ve been working toward for the last several years. It’s the ability to just go with the flow of life, tackling any obstacles head on, the best you can and letting go of all control. JustContinue reading “the wisdom of Anthony Kiedis.”
Gratitude
To be upset over what you don’t have is to waste what you do have.
beauty is pain?
Women are on a mission to stay young, tight, and beautiful! Primping, priming, painting, crimping, extending, removing, gluing, taping, sucking-in, bleaching, waxing, plucking, etc. etc. etc., the things we do to ourselves to achieve and maintain beauty. We know beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but here is what the dictionary says: BeautyContinue reading “beauty is pain?”
The Covid-15 is real!
Carbs carbs and more carbs, this is what I’ve been eating day after day during pandemic, and it’s starting to show! Oh weight loss, why does the struggle gotta be so real? People will come to me and tell me how they know they need to lose weight, that they no longer like the wayContinue reading “The Covid-15 is real!”
judgement detox.
“Your truth is what heals” – Gabby Bernstein We can’t blame other people for not giving us what we want and need when we want and need it. We all have our own “stuff” going on, and coming from a place of understanding and compassion may be the wisest thing we can do for our ownContinue reading “judgement detox.”
a Sunday pick-me-up
When you need a little pick me up, try Transforming: Fear into Courage Not Enough into Plenty Old Patters of Behaviour into Fresh Responses Anger into Cleansing Breath Sorrow into Hope Grief into Rebirth Loneliness into support Dis-empowerment into Confident Action Creative Dormancy into Full Expression Superficiality into True Being Masks into Love of WhatContinue reading “a Sunday pick-me-up”
relationship goals
It’s easy to say that our relationship goals are based on pop culture and society. We are bound to how society dictates the way life should be. We are mezmorized and influenced by the things we see in movies and hear in love songs thinking what we see and hear are how relationships should look.Continue reading “relationship goals”
that funky spunk
Reader beware, this is going to be unappetizing. Yup. That’s right, we’re talking about semen. I don’t know about you, but I’ve had my share of funky tasting spunk, jizz, cum, spooge, whatever you want to call it. And you never know what you’re going to get when you’re with a new lover. The mentalContinue reading “that funky spunk”
