Is it possible to find love on Tinder? Last weekend out of boredom & loneliness, I reactivated my tinder account. I spent hours swiping through countless men, and not having an actual conversation with any. The action is something like this: swipe, swipe, too short, too tall, swipe, swipe, talked to him before, swipe, swipe,Continue reading “Tinder.”
We have viewer warnings before TV shows and movies for violence, nudity & course language. The entertainment industry also needs to put disclaimers on Romantic films. Something like: The proceeding is a work of fiction. Happy endings, men proclaiming their true love & grand gestures of any kind are unreal & may leave you withContinue reading “Viewer Discretion is Advised”
I love how Marianne Williamson describes Illumination. Illumination is the building of the passage, the construction of the spiritual tunnel through which the soul finds its way out of ego-bound darkness into mystical light. (Pg.24 from her book Illuminata.) I am taking this time, during Lent, to take a break from online dating. I’ve hadContinue reading “Thank you Marianne.”
Since “gratitude is the attitude” I will apply it to my dating life. I have kissed a lot of frogs in the search of my prince. So in this moment, I am grateful for these short lived relationships. They each taught me something – like I am pleased when a man opens a car doorContinue reading “Gratitude & failed relationships”
This week I learned to stand up for myself. I was not being treated how I deserve so I ended it with someone I was seeing. He turned it around and tried to make me feel as if there was something wrong with me. I guess I miss him sometimes, but I know this wasn’tContinue reading “Breaking up ain’t hard to do”
I feel so lost lately. Fighting with my best friend. But it’s a silent fight. … I’m finally getting around to my vision board. But I’m second guessing myself. – where are my pics of Tina Fey, Amy Pohler, Kristen Wiig, Lena Dunham & Mindy Khaling? … It’s like the guy I’m dating is contemplatingContinue reading “Lost”
Dating is a game & I’m pretty competitive at games. I also like to play by the rules and call people out who try and bend the rules or cheat. Perhaps this is why I’m not very good at dating. We talk, meet, get along, see each other for a bit, and then the cricketsContinue reading “If it doesn’t serve you, let it go.”
Dear God, You know and I know that I have more potential for neurosis in this area than in any other. Please take my attractions, thoughts and feelings about this person and use them for your purposes. Let this relationship unfold according to your will. Amen.