In this world with so much going on we forget to reflect and see why things are happening the way they are happening. My psychotherapist urges, “it’s not what’s happening TO you, it’s what’s happening for you.” This is the reason why things unravelled in my last relationship. I lost a grip of myself, whoContinue reading “breakups and pandemics.”
Category Archives: online dating
On these dating sites
…like where is my next hit! Who is the next person that will give me the attention I need and crave? Who will provide me with that fast love? Who will give me that attraction high for the next few weeks? I need my hit!
Fight song
See. I’m a reformed easy girl. And I know not how to separate my urges from my standards. And I guess that makes me easy. We hang out, we found each other attractive and we went at it, and because I didn’t make him wait to have a taste, and because he didn’t have to wineContinue reading “Fight song “
Online dating tips for men.
I’m back on the online dating scene, and there are just a few things I’d like to get off my chest! Men, please do not do the following: 1. Post photos of you & the fish you caught – nobody cares. 2. Post group photos – I’m gonna hope you’re the hot one, and beContinue reading “Online dating tips for men.”
Tinder.
Is it possible to find love on Tinder? Last weekend out of boredom & loneliness, I reactivated my tinder account. I spent hours swiping through countless men, and not having an actual conversation with any. The action is something like this: swipe, swipe, too short, too tall, swipe, swipe, talked to him before, swipe, swipe,Continue reading “Tinder.”
My Dating Pattern
When I don’t hear from a boy I eat. I eat until my stomach is so full. I don’t participate in many activities except eating & watching TV. I disregard the gym and life outside of my house. When I get in a good groove I feel good. I’m not a slave to my phoneContinue reading “My Dating Pattern”