Let’s take a moment to talk about DATING STANDARDS Sticking to my dating standards during the pandemic has been difficult, or rather, I’ve been lazy. Bypassing the tinder texting phase and almost instantly sharing my phone number, bypassing my social media non-share practices and sharing my online life with a stranger, bypassing the feel-the-vibe-out phoneContinue reading “What are your dating standards?”
With exercise, as with in life, it’s necessary to take time-outs to recover. When you’re benching 75 lbs, for example, you must take a rest after 8-12 reps, for at least 30-90 seconds, maybe longer depending on your body. We do this so during the next set, we can come at it from a preparedContinue reading “the recovery process”
Self-love comes from the inside out. How do I know this? I lost 80 lbs and in many respects, I still feel like the 255 lbs girl I’ve been for the majority of my life. I’m sensitive to how others perceive me, sensitive to words, quick to be on the defensive, As my waistline slowlyContinue reading “love from the inside out”
Dear God, I’m not doing so well. Sadness has become a frequent visitor, and today he’s lingered. I cried because I missed one of my favourite bands perform tonight. I don’t have anyone in my life who would be interested in going with me. So that means I miss out too.
I’m feeling lonely tonight. I want to be feeling happy & loved. I fear I’m becoming desperate for love. I really need to close the door on someone from my past. He sucks the emotion right out of me. I allow it. He is currently on a road trip with another girl – and IContinue reading “Lonely nights”
Do you have a person or people in your life who make you feel shitty after talking with them? I have one person like that, but for reasons too many I haven’t been able to let him go. Perhaps it’s my daddy issues. This guy has been a constant in my life for years. &Continue reading “Toxic people.”
I’m feeling a bit sad & lonely tonight. I have been single for over a month & I miss the companionship, the attention & the extra body heat that comes with a relationship. I usually have a male prospect to at least talk with when nights get lonely, but I have taken a break fromContinue reading “Lonesome.”
I’m feeling a bit lonely this Sunday, and my addictive habits are mentally reaching for the ice cream. It would be so easy to fill my belly with sweet, creamy ice cream! So tonight I pray. Dear God, This evening I ask for a miracle. Please help me remember and be grateful for all thoseContinue reading “Ice cream to soothe the soul?”