the fast and the furious – Covid dating update

“Dating” during Covid is like the fast and the furious. So many connections, so many future plans for dates but you know talk is cheap. Am I just being cynical? If not, then I’ve agreed to a number of dates, but it’s easy to commit when you know no real commitment actually exists. The lengthContinue reading “the fast and the furious – Covid dating update”

emotional pain > physical pain

I think some people don’t understand just how painful a breakup can be. Often times, friends and family of the afflicted will provide advice like: “you can do better”, “your ex ain’t shit”, “there are plenty of fish in the sea” and a slew of other things meant to help you out. Don’t get meContinue reading “emotional pain > physical pain”

the recovery process

With exercise, as with in life, it’s necessary to take time-outs to recover. When you’re benching 75 lbs, for example, you must take a rest after 8-12 reps, for at least 30-90 seconds, maybe longer depending on your body. We do this so during the next set, we can come at it from a preparedContinue reading “the recovery process”

Gratitude & failed relationships

Since “gratitude is the attitude” I will apply it to my dating life. I have kissed a lot of frogs in the search of my prince. So in this moment, I am grateful for these short lived relationships. They each taught me something – like I am pleased when a man opens a car doorContinue reading “Gratitude & failed relationships”

My Dating Pattern

When I don’t hear from a boy I eat. I eat until my stomach is so full. I don’t participate in many activities except eating & watching TV. I disregard the gym and life outside of my house. When I get in a good groove I feel good. I’m not a slave to my phoneContinue reading “My Dating Pattern”